As a Marketer, I like to think I am “immune” to marketing: I know what goes on behind the scenes, so I am not mesmerized by the bells and whistles of the front end. I have been through a couple different programs of sales training, so I know every trick in the book used to entice one to buy something. I do not allow sentimental images dancing across the screen to woo me, I am uninspired by inspirational music. I am a veritable fortress unto myself, nothing can crack my defenses.
Until we run out of toilet paper, and I didn’t like the last brand. Or I’m feeling like ‘water lily’ scented deodorant this time, instead of ‘Hawaiian Breeze.’ Or Hautelook is having a sale on Dooney and Burke!

Ok, I must admit I shop, just like everybody else. Well, not just like, but I am a consumer, after all. My experience as a Marketer does impact my buying behavior, but I cannot claim total immunity to being influenced by a great commercial or strategically-placed ad in my social media feed.
What type of consumer would I consider myself? Being a Mother, the majority of my shopping is habitual, to satisfy household needs (Kardes, p. 8). In terms of shopping for my family (i.e., basic groceries, supplies and such), I avoid getting the cheapest option when shopping. I believe in quality, but up to a point: I do keep an eye on my budget, but I have learned that some items are worth paying a bit extra for to get better performance or longevity. But I also understand that something are just over-priced to create hype, and I don’t need to be seen with those things, at this point.
While I might exhibit a degree of brand loyalty, I like to have a couple options for times when my first choice is not available. I am not a variety shopper (Ecommerce, 2019, para. 10) just for the entertainment of it, but I will venture out and try something new if my previous selection of an item was unsatisfactory.
In my previous life selling at the farmers’ markets, particularly as a baker or selling rare varietals from the greenhouse, I would charge a premium price, because my offerings were Artisan, meaning an authentic version, not mass-produced.

A number of items we have in our cultural sphere are watered-down versions of their authentic iterations, “dumbed-down” to appeal to a mass market audience. Examples of this include coffee, beer, wine, tobacco, cheese, bread, even soap. Anyone who has tasted a robust, flavorful micro-brewed beer understands that the generic options in cans or a 12-pack at the grocery store are no comparison. It is same with the coffee, and cheese, and bread, etc.: There exists these items in something closer to their original form, not to be liked by everyone, but appreciated by those who share their lineage. For these items, will pay more when shopping, based upon a mental decision (Kardes, p. 10) that they are better and worth the expense.
What influences my buying decisions?
When shopping for the home and family, I pretty much summed it up above. When shopping for myself, or when buying a gift (Kardes, P. 8), however, my thought process is different. I do enjoy giving gifts, and I will choose based upon what I think the recipient will both enjoy, but also can get good use out of. I would like them to use the item often, and think of me fondly. In most cases, I consider price in gift purchases only in that, unless my relationship with this person is super-close, they will likely feel uncomfortable receiving an expensive gift, and discomfort is not the point of gift giving!
Both in gift-giving and shopping for myself, I usually think of what I need and then look for or research the item (Kardes, p. 9). I don’t hang out looking for advertising to tell me what to buy. A couple years ago I cut the cord with cable, and I see very few commercials, which I prefer. Of course, commercials come find me on social media, but unless I had already thought of buying the item, I do not pay much attention.
Even in the situation I mentioned of Hautelook having Dooney & Burke on sale, I would have already decided I am looking for a new particular handbag, and then hang out and wait for a good candidate to appear, I don’t feel the need to rush out a get just anything.
In my buyer’s journey, I go through the steps of deciding I need/want something, researching the options (best brand, most likely venue to procure the item, be it in-store or on-line), and then decide an optimal price. If it’s an actual need, the price is less negotiable if time is short, but when the item is a want, I can decide what I am willing to pay, and then wait. It seems my purchase decision occurs after the research phase.
I am pretty independent in my purchasing decisions, even if research or marketing says I should be exhibiting a specific set of buying behaviors for my demographic.
As far as post-purchasing behaviors, I like to be as responsible as possible. In my previous life as a farmer, most of the farm outputs could be recycled back into the system (composting manure, feeding leftover produce back to the animals, etc.) so reducing waste is second-nature to me. Only if an item is truly worn-out does it go into the garbage. Anything else I possibly can I either resell, donate, give away or upcycle. And I am mindful of this while making the decision to buy an item in the first place.
So, even though I am still a consumer, I do feel that being a marketer enables me to take a different view of buying: I take an active role in decision-making and research, I have patience and self-restraint, and I am mindful of what will happen to the item when I am done with it. Even the bells and the whistles.
References:
Consumer behavior in marketing – patterns, types, segmentation (no author) (Nov 26, 2019) Ecommerce Growth Blog, retrieved from: https://www.omniconvert.com/blog/consumer-behavior-in-marketing-patterns-types-segmentation.html
Kardes, Frank. Consumer Behavior, 2e.. [MBS Direct].















